1- Set Your Intention: When you wake up in the morning, set the tone for the day and affirm that it will be filled with joy.
2- Focus on What You Have, Not on What You Don't Have: As I learned from one of my spiritual teachers, "To want what you don't have is to waste what you do have.
3- Keep Happy Reminders Around: Photos you love, playful toys, a jar of bubbles, etc. Reference them often.
4- Keep a Gratitude List: Be thankful for all the good stuff in your life. And the not-so-great stuff as well, for they can be your greatest teacher.
5- Keep a Joy List: Write down three things that brought you joy in the past few days. Repeat them when needed.
6- Don't Let Anyone or Anything Ruin Your Day: The choice is yours. You have the power to focus on the positive or the negative.
7- Want What You Have: In Buddhist thinking, suffering comes from non-acceptance. Stop resisting, start enjoying your life right now.
8- Be Still: Meditate, take a walk in the garden, sit quietly for a few minutes. Real happiness comes from your own inner joy.
9- Be Around Children: Young kids find happiness everywhere. Observe them at play and some of that might rub off on you.
10- Don't Forget Your Sense of Humor: A little laughter can change your perspective and lift your spirits.
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Allen Klein is the author of
Embracing Life After Loss, Healing Power of Humor, and, You Can't Ruin My Day
(c)Allen Klein, 2024
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