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HUMOR AND SEPTEMBER 11TH
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Allen Klein, MA, CSP
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THE
DAY LAUGHTER RETURNED
When disaster strikes,
shock sets in. When shock sets in, humor takes a back
seat. When shock subsides, humor appears again.
Within
a week of the 9/11 attacks a glimmer of humor appeared. According
to one Washington Post reporter, the time it took between the first plane
hitting the World Trade Center and the first attempt at Internet humor was 5
days, 2 hours, 8 minutes and 1 second. It consisted of anagrams (a
word or phrase formed by rearranging the letters of another word or phrase)
of the name Osama bin Laden: “Animals on a bed.” “I'm
Dole bananas.” “I'm no bean salad.”
Not
that funny, but still, it was humor, nevertheless. It was a
reminder that life, and laughter, go on.
Even
though it was hard to imagine anything funny ever again, comedians such as
Jay Leno and David Letterman returned from their hiatus. But it
was hardly humor as usual.
The
most they could do was to remind their audience that their role in all of
this was to help people escape. Comparing his work to providing
cookies and lemonade to someone who comes home after a hard day at work, Leno
said, “We’re not trying to make anybody forget. We’re just trying
to take their mind off it for a minute.”
Realizing,
too, the need for distraction, New York City Mayor Rudy Giuliani commanded
the hit Broadway comedy “The Producers” to ring up its curtain again.
And
at SheckyMagazine.com, a Web site for stand-up comics, comedians were urged
to return to their profession of telling jokes: “Some comics have expressed
an understandable reticence to ‘tell our little jokes’ at such a heavy
time. We would advise these comics to regain
perspective. 'Our little jokes' have the power to enable people to
escape the horror.”
But
lightening up a city, and a country, that has never seen or been that close
to destruction before was not an easy task. As Entertainment
Weekly noted “anyone who traffics in current-events comedy still doesn’t know
where to draw the punchline.”
Thus,
when Letterman returned to the air waves, he did it without his usual
humorous opening monologue routine or his “Top Ten” list. Instead,
he was joined on his first show by a tearful Dan Rather who, with Regis
Philbin, recited, ”America the
Beautiful.”
Political
cartoonists too struggled to find the right tone for their
satire. Mike Peters of the Dayton (Ohio) Daily News sketched a
line of naked people at an airport metal detector. One person was
saying, “I guess we have to give in to these security
measures.” Even though it was funny, Peters decided to scrap it
for a less critical cartoon in which an airline employee asks a passenger:
“Do you have reservations?”
“Yes,
but I'm still going to go,” the man replies.
Bring in the Clowns
In
the Jewish religion, the basic mourning period is the seven days of Shiva. At
the end of that you're required to attempt to re-engage with the world and
your life as it was. . . .
and that's where we come in.
—Jerry Seinfeld
While
the country was numb and uncertain of what would happen next, humor was
dormant. But as we began to get a sense of who our enemy was,
humor started to show more strength. Like someone who has had a
stroke and must learn to use their body again, we fumbled around with humor
until we discovered when to laugh and what to laugh at.
“There’s
nothing funny and no humor to be found in the disaster itself,” satirist
Harry Shearer said on National Public Radio’s program, “Fresh Air.” “But,” he
continued, noting that this is a trivial comparison, “when one was making a
great deal of fun of the circus that surrounded the O. J. Simpson trial,
there was nothing funny about the crime that started the whole thing
off. That was horrific and terrible, and nothing funny could be
done about it. But as the thing wound on and we learned more about
those characters and their very human foibles . . . there was a great deal of
fun to be had with that.”
It
took a while but stand-up comics, late-night comedians and political
cartoonists finally found ways to both reflect bad news connected to 9/11
and, at the same time, deflect it with humor. What was safe to
satirize was humor directed at our enemies—Osama bin Laden, the terrorists,
and the Taliban and everything directly or indirectly related to them.
It
was a humor that gave us power over our enemy. It was humor which
lifted us from our despair. It was also humor that bonded us
together against a common cause.
And...it
was funny.
With
something to aim their comic comments at, the late night talk show hosts were
back in their stride. Conan O'Brien, for example, quipped, “It was
reported today that Osama bin Laden has 50 brothers and
sisters. Which absolutely shocked me because I had no idea he was
Catholic.”
And,
Saturday Night Live's “Weekend Update” announced: “Last night the Taliban
offered to release eight Westerners if the US. promised not to attack. The
State Department declined but thanked the Taliban for the offer, saying it
really felt good to laugh again.”
Cartoonists
too had a focus for their pen and their put-downs. Some of the
first attempts of humor involved the mistreatment of women by the
Taliban. In one cartoon, a group of Taliban are reading a
note. In large letters, it says, “Give us Osama bin Laden or we'll
send your women to college.”
Another
editorial cartoon takes place in a human bomb class in an Afghanistan
Terrorist School. The instructor, who has a bunch of dynamite strapped
around his waist and a detonator in his hand, tell the class, “Pay attention,
because I'm only going to do this once, OK?”
Every
event related to the attacks of 9/11 brought with it new laughing
matter. When Jesse Jackson. for example, wanted to negotiate with
the Taliban, actor Darrell Hammond playing Jackson on Saturday Night Live explained:
“For
the record, I did not contact the Taliban. They, in fact, contacted me. What
happened was this. I had a hang-up on my machine. So I star-69'd. And they
said, 'Hello?' And I said, 'Who's this?' And they said, 'Who's this?' And I
said, 'You called me.' Then they said, 'No, you called us. 'And I said, 'I
star-69'd you.'"
When stricter security at airports was the new
news of the day, Letterman told his audience, “Security here in New York City
is still very tight. Hookers in Time Square now are demanding two forms
of fake ID.”
The
New Yorker, which was denuded of cartoons immediately after 9/11, ran a piece
two months later comparing what was funny when this country found itself at
war in December 1941, and what we were laughing at now. Two of the
current cartoons focused on security issues.
One
showed a woman going through airport security holding her pet cat in a
carrying case. A security guard informs her, “We'll need to declaw
the cat.”
The
other cartoon depicts a customer getting the going over with a
metal-detecting wand outside a restaurant. He tells someone
waiting behind him, “The food is just so-so, but the security is fantastic.”
After
one airline passenger tried to ignite the explosives in his shoes, cartoonist
Mike Peters helped us laugh at new heightened security pat downs and clothing
searches. A couple in their underwear are putting their clothes
back on. The husband is saying to his wife: “I don't mind these
strip-searches but I hate when they stick dollars in my underwear.”
When
the anthrax scare came along, it too brought with it more grist for the humor
mill. Jay Leno quipped, “The FBI is urging all Americans to beware
of any letters or packages that have badly misspelled words. Man,
this is going to be terrible news for the rap industry.”
One
cartoonist used humor to cleverly tackled both the anthrax scare and the
increasing job cuts. A man sitting at his desk cautiously opening
a letter quips, “Whew! It's only a layoff notice.”
And
finally, folks on the Internet got real creative with elements related to
9/11. One photo showed a woman lying down on the conveyor belt of
the luggage scanner. The headline reads: “Enhanced Airport
Screening to Include Mammogram.”
As
humor returned to the airwaves, the wire services, and the Web, the rules for
poking funny at our leaders began to ease. Here, for example, was
a letter that circulated on the Internet shortly after the attacks:
From:
The White House
To: Albert Gore Dear Al, We found some more votes. You won. When do you want to take over? Sincerely, George W. Bush
Bring in the Other Clowns
The art of the clown
is more profound than we think…. It is the comic mirror of tragedy and the
tragic mirror of comedy.
—André Suarès
Our
comedians and cartoonists are not the only ones who help us heal with laughter. There
is a whole other, often under-recognized, group of humor
healers. These are the caring clowns around the country who visit
hospitals and nursing homes bringing comfort and comic relief to both the
sick and the dying. They also play an important role during
disasters.
John
Kapherer, from New Jersey, who is known in the world of clowning as “Clem T”,
is one of those clowns. Three days after the attack he put on his
costume and headed for Ground Zero. He reports:
“I'm
not allowed to get anywhere near the World Trade Center, but I am
entertaining the Search and Rescue teams at night. . . . Most of what I've
been doing is just being there for the people looking for
missing friends, talking with children and entertaining on a limited
basis for the people of NYC. This is not a time for jokes and
laughter but a time for caring and support…. I am doing whatever I can do to
help out, even if it is from afar.
On
TV, the mayor said they don't want unnecessary people being in
NYC. I respect him, but I am going by what the New York Police
Department, Fire Department and the searchers have been telling
me. 'You're a spark of light to us.'….
Security
has increased over the past two days and I am limited in my activities and
places that I can go—the morgue, Canal Street, and the hospitals all have
people who need love, hugs, and understanding….
I
hold hands and hug people. It's easy to hug a clown. I
spend a lot of time talking to the police, well listening. I give
out hug coupons. Sometimes the police see me and ask for more hug
coupons so they can give them out.
When
they see me, they start laughing. A lot of the police want their
pictures taken with me. And they want the senior officer to hug a clown
and have their picture taken…..
I
met Mayor Giuliani and the governor and all they could say was 'Thanks for
being here, you are what we need right now.' Clowns do make a
difference and I have the memories to prove it.
Comic Spirit
The comic spirit
masquerades in all things we say and do.
We are each a clown and do not need to put on a white face.
—James Hillman
Sometimes,
when we least expect it, the comic spirit arises, from seemingly out of
nowhere, to remind us that there just might be another way of looking at a
troubled world.
Alongside
the story about Clem T in the Hospital Clown Newsletter, published by caring
clown Shobi Dobi, there was an anonymously written piece about the aftermath
of the World Trade Center. It is a wonderful reminder that the
comic spirit lives even in the midst of tragedy. Here is part of
that story:
I've
been volunteering at the Armory. That is where the families with
missing people go…. I was sorting through the donations people were sending
in. One woman sent a mink coat. Someone sent dirty
sneakers, T-shirts with armpit stains, and, let's see what else—oh, yes, half
a tube of toothpaste! Everyone in my part of the Armory was laughing
hysterically when they saw these items. It was kind of nice to
have something to laugh at….
Yesterday
we went back to work—tried to be normal. I was walking home and
had stopped at a light near my apartment. I noticed the guy
standing next to me was wearing a New York City fire department
T-shirt. I thanked him and asked him how he was holding
up. He started sobbing and hugged me.
He
was on his way to my local fire station. They had lost 14
men. He'd been working nonstop since the attack. He
said it was like hell—body parts everywhere. He told me he felt
sick every time he had to go in—that the only thing that kept him going was
the people cheering the rescue workers on when they walked out of Ground Zero. He
said, 'please don't stop doing that—don't stop cheering us. If you
do, I don't know what we'll do.'
I
went to the firehouse with him and lit a candle at the vigil. As
I was walking back to my house, I kept wondering if NYC would ever be the
same again.
Just then, a drag queen came roller blading by
dressed as Wonder Woman. As he handed out donuts to people waiting on line, I
started to laugh. I realized that somethings about New York City will never
change.”
Nudging Toward Normalcy
I think the comedian's
greatest service in the upcoming months can be to remind people of the
past tragedy—but at the same time nudge them toward normalcy with
laughter.
—Tina Knight
The
comedians, the cartoonists, and the caring clowns comforted a nation under
stress. They provided a distraction from the seemingly endless
replay of the horrors of September 11th.
The
laughter they helped produce bonded us together in defiance. One
doctored photograph, for example, of a supposedly new design for the World
Trade Center showed not two towers, but five. Each looked like a
finger, the middle one sticking up higher than the rest.
Back
to normal? Sort of.
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Thursday, September 12, 2019
Humor and 9-11: The Day Laughter Returned
Thursday, August 15, 2019
MidMonth Mirth Memo, SPECIAL EDITION, August 2019
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Monday, July 22, 2019
5 You-Can-Do-It Steps to Make Your Dreams Come True
One of the best, and perhaps simplest, ways of getting more of what you want in life is to set your intentions on what that is.
In my TEDx talk on Intention (http://tinyurl.com/z4hfsx5), I talked about how I found the perfect publisher, got to march in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade in New York City, and even got to do that TEDx talk because of my intentions to do those things.
I also shared the five ways to harness the power of intention and how they can help you get more of what you want. They are:
1- Be clear about what you want. If you don’t know what that is, how are you going to get it.
2- Put it in writing. Seeing what you want on paper is documenting what you are seeking.
3- You don’t have to know how it will happen. Just put it out in the universe and see what happens.
4- You can’t just think about what you want. You need to start doing things that will help you achieve your goals.
5- Lighten up. Getting too serious about anything gets in the way of your manifesting them.
Although I didn’t provide this example in my TEDx talk, writing down the exact kind of house I wanted got me a near perfect match.
When I was looking for a second home, I gave the real estate agent a list of thirty items I was seeking in a house. He found one that had 28 of those things. I’m convinced that it was because I was very clear of what I wanted, wrote what that was down, put it out in the
universe, and enlisted help, a real estate agent, to find it.
How will you manifest what you want?
P.S.: To help you stay positive while pursuing your goals, take a look at my latest book:
Positive Thoughts for Troubling Times
Sunday, June 16, 2019
MidMonth Mirth Memo, June 2019
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Wednesday, May 15, 2019
Mid-Month Mirth Memo, May 2019
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Friday, March 15, 2019
MidMonth Mirth Memo, March 2019
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Tuesday, January 15, 2019
MidMonth Mirth Memo, January 2019
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